Wednesday, April 1, 2009

The beggining on the road to adoption

April1, 2009

We deceided to adopt a little girl from Eastern Europe, she is 6 yrs old, currently living in an orphanage. When we saw her picture, something about that photo said to us, "I'm beautiful, and you both want me to be your little girl". We also deceided to look in a domestic adoption, but we always went back to her photo to see if she had found a family yet. One day, we couldn't find find her photo on the adoption site, were getting anxious as to what happened, as children are transferred to instututions at an early age. We deceided that if not finding her photo, and the thought of her living alone, in a crib or bed, in an institution, possibly for the rest of her life, was not an option for us, we wanted her, we need her, to give her unconditional love, and everything that a child needs to have a great life. We finally found her photo, had a sign of relief, and thought this is a sign from God. I am currently taking a class, and there was a huge map on a stand, I asked for another sign from God that this is the right thing to do, I just happened to look up at the map, which was about 4 ft from me, and there was an enlarged part of Eastern Europe. We committed to adopting her that night. we are moving along fairly well paperwork wise, considering it's many, many, documents, many, many notarazations. when some frustration happens getting paperwork done, I look at her beautiful face, and move on. Our 2 kids are thrilled, to have her join the family too. It's hard with your child to be so far away, our hearts pine for her. I wish she was here yesterday.

9 comments:

  1. Congratulations on finding your daughter. Your blog post is truly moving, she is deeply in you heart I cant wait until your all together.

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  2. Thanks Cathy
    I'm psyched that in 5 days we're having our fingerprints for USCIS (Immigration), there are absolutly no reasons that our prints won't be cleared. Since we will be in Boston to do this, will have some documents stamped with the Mass state seal. Two days ago, had my required blood workk doe, and a TB shot, bring paperwork to sign off the TB shot to my Dr office, can't barely see where it was done, which is a good thing, get another paper notorized. We have been using a notary at a UPS store, he knows us by name now. He asked "If you don't mind me asking, why all the notorazations?" I told him for an international adoption, this mans face lit up, and smiled ear to ear, he wants to meet her too. Our town assessor had to sign a paper for us too, he was awesome, came right over to the UPS store in town, printed out extra documents regarding our property, just in case. Ginger had the Property assessor office wrapped around her finger, and she's not even here yet, amazing. The people in that office also "Have to meet her" She has no idea what is in store for her. She will have a whole new identity, daughter, sister, granddaughter, cousin, neice, and friend. We can't to experience all of her "fists". A few people have told me that we're hero's for doing this. We're not, she is the hero, for being resilient living in an orphanage. Love you Beautiful
    Katie

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  3. Congrats and welcome to this wonderful world. Our bio daughter w/DS has enriched our lives in so many ways....just as Ginger will yours!

    She's a beauty.....Love, Paula hoping to adopt Brandi on RR

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  4. Oh, I am so glad you got a blog started. It will be so fun to follow your journey step by step to your daughter.
    Joy,RR

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  5. I am so glad you started a blog! Ginger is so dear to my heart, every since I saw her picture. I prayed so hard for her to find a family and all along it was you!
    I will most definitely be following the process and please let me know if there is any way I can help!
    Oh, and once you have a botton it is going on my blog!

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  6. Glad to see you have a blog! We were so excited when your family found Ginger! Can't wait to follow as you bring her home. She is such a treasure!

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  7. Thanks
    I have been following your blogs too. Sicne all ready having a child with DS, has paved the way to Ginger. We're all ready on the Ds road, so what's one more. How ia the paperwork coming along for my RR friends? Nice to see our other friends following this too.
    Katie

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  8. I am so happy for you and for Ginger. She is such a doll!
    Amy
    RR

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  9. Thrilled for you! Looking forward to reading about your journey! Hope it's fast and smooth so Ginger can come on HOME!

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